{"id":4539,"date":"2024-11-22T18:56:21","date_gmt":"2024-11-22T18:56:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/?p=4539"},"modified":"2024-11-26T06:57:46","modified_gmt":"2024-11-26T06:57:46","slug":"tolerance-and-forgiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/blog\/tolerance-and-forgiveness\/","title":{"rendered":"Tolerance and forgiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2><span style=\"color: #c40e0e;\">Tolerance and forgiveness<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4503 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Internationale-dag-van-de-Tolerantie-16-11-24-1-300x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Internationale-dag-van-de-Tolerantie-16-11-24-1-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Internationale-dag-van-de-Tolerantie-16-11-24-1-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Internationale-dag-van-de-Tolerantie-16-11-24-1-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Internationale-dag-van-de-Tolerantie-16-11-24-1.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"color: #c40e0e;\"><em>A blog by Frits Koster<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Last week (November 16th) was the International Day of Tolerance. We (humans) often think that we are already very tolerant. But what happens in you when you think of specific world leaders? What happens when you think of an ex-lover or a neighbor who does not always greet you kindly? What happens when you think of someone who flies to holiday resorts and loves meat, while you yourself try to keep your ecological footprint as small as possible? What do you experience when you hear newly elected politicians making less nuanced statements? What do you experience when you yourself have made a mistake or an error, or when you become aware that you have (unintentionally) hurt someone else?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2349 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Lezende-olifant-nw-266x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"266\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Lezende-olifant-nw-266x300.jpg 266w, https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Lezende-olifant-nw-909x1024.jpg 909w, https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/Lezende-olifant-nw-scaled.jpg 444w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 266px) 100vw, 266px\" \/>In many ways, we develop harshness and intolerance, towards ourselves and others. For this reason, Joyce Cordus and I have developed the Mindfulness-Based Training in Forgiveness (MBTF). Forgiveness is included in contemporary Positive Psychology as one of twenty-four important core qualities. It can bring softening and harmony to ourselves, others, and the world around us. The MBTF is a secular training that is scientifically researched.<br \/>\nParticipants should be familiar with the practice of mindfulness for at least one year and can put into practice an invitation from the international freedom of speech organisation \u2018Loesje\u2019: \u2018Let\u2019s make tolerance fashionable again.\u2019<\/p>\n<p><em>Frits Koster, 22nd November 2024<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tolerance and forgiveness A blog by Frits Koster Last week (November 16th) was the International Day of Tolerance. We (humans) often think that we are already very tolerant. But what happens in you when you think of specific world leaders? What happens when you think of an ex-lover or a neighbor who does not always&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4503,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4539","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4539","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4539"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4539\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4565,"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4539\/revisions\/4565"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4539"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4539"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.vergevingsgezindheid.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4539"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}